Illustration: Fixed point at top of pendulum during swinging motion.
When you watch the thoughts passing through your mind by being the witness rather than getting caught up in them, is this the same as what is meant by the expression, “Offering it up to God?” Yes, you can look at it in this way. One approach is what we can call the “Jnana Yoga approach” in which you recognize your Self as the witness of all the coming and going. The other approach is the “Bhakti Yoga approach” in which you offer whatever comes and goes to God. Ultimately, they both lead to the same goal of enabling you to remain unaffected by all that changes, all that comes and goes. When we identify with the ever-changing or look for happiness in these things we suffer.
So, in Jnana Yoga, you identify yourself to be a witness and you watch what comes and goes. The other approach is that you offer everything to God rather than taking it as your own. You don’t make it yours. That’s why we hear the prayer, “I am Thine, all is Thine, Thy Will be done.” Then, whether Jnana or Bhakti you are no longer the “doer.” You are the Be-er. That’s why I always say, “Leave it to Be-er.” When things come, you can feel, “I am offering it.” You pass it on, you become a conveyor belt, and that way you remain always balanced
Think of it like the silver screen, a movie screen, on which various images of the movie appear. The images may be those of a war story, a wedding story, or a crime story. Whatever the story is the screen doesn’t get affected, it simply is there, watching the movie. Shadows are cast on the movie screen and then they go away. Life is like this—so many shadows, images, dramas come and go but what remains the same? The witness—the one who is always aware of the coming and going. That is what you call the pure you or the true Self.
You simply know things and even your own thoughts and feelings. You even say, “My thoughts come and go.” How do you know that? “Well, I was all happy yesterday. Today I am a little down and I know I will be all right tomorrow.” See? Because you seem to know the thoughts and feelings are coming and going that means you are the knower, you are not the thoughts. You knew you were happy yesterday and you know that you are unhappy now and you know you will be happy again tomorrow. What is common here? Your knowing. You know you were happy. You know you are unhappy. You know you will feel alright again. So the knowing never became happy and unhappy and the knowing is always the common thing. You are the knower, a pure silver screen. The unhappy thoughts and the happy thoughts of the mind simply cast a shadow on the screen, then roll on. Nothing ever stays there on the screen and just like the movie screen, when you recognize this, you won’t get affected by whatever comes and goes.
And that recognition of who you essentially are as the unchanging Self is the secret to lasting peace and happiness. The real you is never unhappy, sad, anxious, elated, and so on. All those feelings come and go. Who are you, then? You are the true witness, the real knower. That’s why you always say, “I know this, I know that.
When the mind does some mischief, it suffers. But you should not suffer, the real you. As a witness you can say to your mind and body, “I saw you gobbling up everything whether you were hungry or not yesterday. Now you complain, ‘Oh, I have a little stomachache.’ You can say, “Sorry, I am simply watching. I am sure you will be alright tomorrow once your stomach gets settled.” You can be sympathetic and feel compassion for the mind and body and, in this way, you don’t get affected by whatever arises.
This understanding and recognition of your True Nature can also be cultivated during meditation. When you sit to meditate, just watch the mind. Often, the mind doesn’t stay focused but just runs here and there. That’s the best opportunity to watch the show! Watch how thoughts arise, feelings arise, and then they go. You can observe the nature of the mind which is to be constantly moving here and there. As you become more aware of this and focus your mind on your mantra or breath, gradually the thoughts will begin to settle.
You will also be learning to not involve yourself in the thoughts or feelings that arise and that will also help them to quiet down from lack of attention. As you do this more and more in meditation, you can begin to do the same throughout your day so that the thoughts and feelings that once were experienced as disturbing the mind lose their ability to do that. Instead, you will remember more and more that you are the unchanging one. It’s something similar to how a pendulum functions: You remain like the fixed part connected at the top and then you can enjoy the movement of the pendulum as it swings right and left. Life is for enjoyment and the best enjoyment comes to the one who knows how to remain balanced in the midst of the ever-changing.
